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Regrets

To Live with Regret

“I wish I would have….”

“If only I’d done….. Instead of……”

How often to we say to ourselves these things?

What would you truly do to be able to go back and replay an experience in life having the information that you posses now that may have been lacking at the time?

Hindsight is a valuable tool that we as humans posses,

Everyday we make choices based on the sum of our experiences through life, every step that has lead us down our path in our journey through life,

Every moment in time up until that inevitable moment where we must make that decision and live with the consequences that are to follow.

To Live with Regret is to hold onto the past.

As we replay the situation over and over again in our minds, we tell ourselves what we would have done differently had we known what we know now.

But consider this

Would I really have the knowledge and experience that I poses now, had I not made the decision that I had made?

Whatever the outcome what’s matters most is not the mistakes that you make in Life but what you are able to learn from then.

If I regret a decision then I have not truly Learned the lesson of that experience.

Some times these lessons are glaringly obvious:

“I know now in the future I need to prepare better, I didn’t do enough revision”

“I need to work on my interview technique, next time they’ll hire me”

Don’t regret the life you’ve lived instead choose to take lessons from the experiences you’ve obtained, letting these lessons carry you into the future.

Life is to short to live with regret

Make the most if each day,
Live life till its fullest,

I’m 27 now and I am where I am meant to be, every decision had made me the man I am today

To deny this fact is to deny who I truly am

I wish you all the best on your journey today 🙂 X